Lately, we have given a number of talks on the responsibility of parents to be the primary educators of their children in the Faith. In addition to our Raising Catholic Kids for Their Vocations (TAN, 2019), we have begun recommending a great new book by our friend Fr. Carter Griffin, Forming Families, Forming Saints (Emmaus Road, 2024).
Drawing on his own experience as a seminary rector and the wisdom of the Church concerning Christian formation contained in the Program for Priestly Formation, Fr. Griffin examines the four basic areas that the Program outlines: human, spiritual, intellectual, and apostolic. In each area he examines relevant virtues and illustrates them with examples from the lives of the saints and his own pastoral experience.
This book helps parents understand more concretely their task to form their children in the Faith and provides practical examples and inspiration for doing so. Our task as parents is to help our children get to heaven. Of course, it’s only by God’s grace that we can do so, but it helps to have a clear picture of what growing in holiness as a family looks like. Fr. Griffin gives us that picture with his book.
Today, April 27th is John’s birthday. I thank God for creating him and giving him to me as my husband and partner on this journey towards heaven. Happy birthday, Sweetheart!
It’s also our wedding anniversary. We got married on John’s birthday four years after we met. He always says, ” There’s no way that I’ll ever forget our anniversary!” After getting married and graduating from college we moved to Milwaukee where John would do graduate work in theology at Marquette. He studied and wrote on John Paul II’s thoughts, especially The Theology of the Body, ultimately writing his dissertation on gender with a special focus on JPII’s teachings. A few years later John would write the forward to the 1997 edition of The Theology of the Body.
As Pope, JPII played a major role in our journey together. He became Pope when we were both sophomores in high school and he served in that ministry for the first half of our marriage. A few years after Pope John Paul II died, John and I were appointed to The Pontifical Council for the Family which he established on May 9th 1981, just two weeks after John and I met. Then, on April 27th 2014, JPII was canonized, becoming Pope Saint John Paul II. He was declared a Saint on John’s birthday and our anniversary.
Over the years I have seen the influence of JPII in our marriage and ministry, and since his canonization I have been asking him to intercede for John as he continues to teach and write and to pray for him to have the courage to speak the truth as JPII did. We have definitely felt his intercession and guidance and believe that he has played a part in bringing us to his homeland, Poland. I am so very excited to see what God has planned for us while we are there and to share it with all of you.